Write them a Love letter, if social media is not your thing.

I have FB friend who posted these and got me thinking.

These notes got me thinking about the FEAR of connecting with someone you admire.
Old schoolers found ways to connect using Love letters. Needless to say, you had to be able to write and express your passions and desires without scaring the other person, because you didn't have many other options. "you've got mail"  REALLY? Now your email arrival is sound on your phone, your face time just pops up and you accept the call or you reject it.  Think about your instant responses. They have a lasting effect on your connection with the person you are trying to connect with. note: a rejection does not say you are busy to call later. unless you specify that "now is not a good time." so here is the thing that gets people all bent out of shape about communication. I found out the hard way that....
 Knowing how to write a Healing letter is key to overcome misinterpretations.  

For example, understanding how your past affects your present reactions helps you heal your feelings. If your love interest has upset you in some way, write them a Love Letter, and while you are writing ask yourself how this relates to your past (feeling of being rejected). As you write you may find memories coming up from your past and discover that you are really upset with your own experiences. At this point continue writing but now address your letter to your love interest. Share this letter with that person. They will like hearing or seeing your letter. It feels great when the person you are interested in takes responsibility for the 90% of their hurt that comes from the past. without this understanding of our past, we tend to blame our Love interest, or at least they feel blamed. If you want the person you are focusing on to be more sensitive to your feelings, let them experience the painful feelings of your past rejections. Then they can understand your sensitivities. Love Letters are an excellent opportunity to connect with others.


  

So that love Letter brought you around, to thinking more like I do!