12/31/2023

try to understand that all her days are not the same.

 Love her extra on her bad days. There’ll be days where she’ll get angry at little things. There’ll be days where she’ll take everything too seriously. There’ll be days where she’ll be too emotional. There’ll be days where you’ll notice she’s being more clingy. There’ll be days where she’ll be easily upset. There’ll be days where she’ll be more sensitive than usual. There’ll be days where she’ll be more quiet than normal. There’ll be days where she’ll feel overwhelmed by everything going on around her and mistakenly lash out at you. There’ll be days where she’s going to overthink and over-analyze everything which’ll cause her to be negative. There’ll be days where she’s going to take things the wrong way and feel attacked. There’ll be days where she’ll seem distant and not have much to say. There’ll be days where her insecurities are going to get the best of her. There’ll be days where she’ll feel like it’s not going to get better. And on those days, especially on those days, is when she’s going to need you the most. You need to be more patient with her. You need to be more understanding with her. You need to be more attentive to her. Don’t take it as her trying to pick a fight with you. Don’t take it as her giving you an attitude. Don’t take it as her being cold towards you. It’s just her at her lowest point needing you to love her more even if you think she doesn’t deserve it because then, she’ll know that everything will be okay with you there... in her corner.

Final thoughts.
OK I  am not a guy who fully understand women, however I understand somethings about women's emotions. Over 25 years or just lived with a woman when I was married I lived through all of the above at various points in time.
So I learned a valuable set of lessons. So why am I nolonger married? Let me just say I did not always handle everything the way I listed above. My BAD for maturing too late!

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