A guy that is good Husband material

there are some qualities that makes a man a great husband, finding these traits is something every woman out there should be lucky enough to find.
for most women who are, or were married, and  want to be married being with the right man is top priority. He may not be perfect to others but you first have to see him as the best thing in your life.
There are some qualities that make some  men great  husbands, finding this trait is something every woman out there should seek. But remember, it takes two committed people to make a relationship work.

Don't tickle me!

 Now ladies I learned all this after I got divorced as I thought long and  hard about what I could have done better. Maybe I can help a few guys out there by sharing my thoughts.
Here are my  10 signs you have a potentially great husband on the line, just reel him in .

1. He stands by you through the good and bad. A very supportive guy will make a woman feel supported. Ok this is not done as easy as 1-2-3, because things can get pretty complicated in relationships these days. So if he deals with all your mood swings and does not jump over board then he will keep cruising with you.   

2. He has a sense of humor. He makes you laugh really hard , or at least smile,  with silly and funny things he does. Guys, it can be quit a challenge to keep a woman happy, but if she enjoys  your sense of humor, then you are half way there.. I was told  to my face " you are such a fool"  on more than one occasion while clowning around. I took it as a compliment!  

This would not be heaven if you weren't here
 with me to enjoy this view and this bottle of wine .

3.  He knows what loyalty is all about. A great husband knows there's only one woman who owns his heart, doesn't matter the amount of women he comes in contact with everyday. His attention he gives you.. making you  the special Lady.
Here is were we have to learn to do the hard things , Fellahs. It's easy to  chase  other women,  it is harder to stay put.... and save your energy for one "special lady." She deserves your best. Once you have declared her special.. Make her feel special by grant her your best. 
4. He know you like no other. He understands you in a deeper level than others. He know what makes you tick, what makes you sad and happy. He know your purpose in life. This is called "time invested" If a man takes the time to figure out what makes  a woman happy or sad, then he is not following someone else's script, because all women are different. A man who takes the time to be observant,  is a guy who will think before acting. therefore avoiding the things that could become deal breakers.  
5. He is very good at communicating. He talks and listens to you and gist with you about anything.
OK, let's assume, he loves you more for your mind and your accomplishment than your aesthetics/ assets. He is more interested in helping you succeed. He can offer some insight into you progressing in your chosen career.  This is called helping you to reach your full potential.  

Isn't this what the Dr ordered

6. Your safety is his top  priority. he tends to your physical and emotional needs and does all he can to protect you from harm.
This here is what real men do, anyway. but if he is doing it while dating ,  before you are in a full committed relationship then he  will  do it with more intensity when you are married.  
7. He's willing to share with you the knowledge he has. He doesn't have to prove he's the smartest or wisest but takes his time to make sure you understand what he's sharing with you.
Let's just say he has done a few things in the corporate world and has had some success, He could help you excel by warning you about a things you should avoid doing.
8. He sees you both as equals in strength and talents. He's not ashamed or afraid of you in public.
Hmmm, OK, now you might intimidate him a little but he is still proud of your strength and talents, you might even have superior skills, to his, which he will boast about you, big time, to everyone who will listen. 
9. He enjoys spending time with you. You both enjoy being in each others company and will always have a good time together.
As I'm writing this blog post I paused for moment and  just left a comment on a couple Facebook post who  I admire to the max.. as they are at a restaurant on their date night. Let's just say I want what they have. there marriage  survived while all of our  marriages ( their friends/neighbors, who live in the same gated community) ended in  divorces

Isn't this great?

10.  he never fails to admit his mistakes and apologies when he's wrong. I often refer to my feeling the sting of the hand slap as my indicator of my being wrong in an act I might have committed  in error. Ouch, I'm sorry ! I deserved that!

But the most import things  he thinks about things in terms of "just the two of us!" 

Grover Washington Jr. - Just the Two of Us