Threeway way relationships! Are they more common these days?

Karmia Berry in Red.

Let ’s get real and frank about things we may deny to those who do not know us.

But admit in private to people we confined in. When my young cousin Karmia Berry

Bernette Berry and Karmia Berry

starred in the movie “The Three-way” I had mixed feelings about watching simply

because this is my baby girl ( she is just like my daughter,

her and my sons are close cousins, like brothers and sister,

her mom and I grew up together, she was one of my older cousins who molded me )

starring in a movie that gave me pause. But when I saw the trailer I was less apprehensive

about seeing it. Simply because the plot was different from where my imagination took me.

You see in a mature man’s brain a threeway relationship, sounds like a “threesome”

I wasn’t ready to think of my young cousin starring in a movie like that…. Hell….

call me a hypocrite if you want. But I’m a family oriented man, who feels that seeing

two women and a man in bed together, or watching one getting played is

pretty much every man’s fantasy but when one of the women is someone

I have a great love for… I draw the line.

We can have a debate about it. And you will make me out to be a guy with double standards
. <smirking> soft or hardcore Porn is not cool if one of

the actresses is someone I know personally.

OK, enough about my double standards. With the ratio of men to women beinga many to one relationship…. It is understood that more women will be

in this relationship. It becomes very evident around the holidays.

When the least important woman on the man’s list is often all alone minus

her shared man on holidays like Thanksgiving  Christmas and New Year's Eve,

Easter, 4th of July etc. She might see him come by January 2nd of the New Year and then 350+ days of option dates or booty calls will be as if last New Years and

other holidays didn’t hurt like hell for some of these women. When I saw my cousin pop the dude across his head,

and call him "a liar and a cheater." I felt better that she wasn’t starring as the thid party,

the outside woman. But the reality was that my protecting nature was not cool with her even

acting in that kind of situation. She visited me a few years ago and as
we were hanging together at one of my friend’s restaurant Boo Boo Jams, his grandson,

(who is someone I know very well) came and introduced himself.

I was “no, this is not happening” he was in multiple relationships and I knew his history.

Normally that didn’t bother me I didn’t render judgment on his lifestyle….

Until he approached my cousin. Then all friendship bet’s were off.

They liked each other so I had to warn her that I might have to kill his whole family if he

hurts her. She understood! She didn't want her cousin turning into a criminal...
<smirking> So that was it for her being interested.

But not for him, she returned to N.Y. and a few weeks later he hopped on a plane

and went looking for her. She said: ” I don’t believe he did that.” my response was: ’

I told you about him and his obsessive nature…’

He could not get to see her because she lived in a different area than he thought….

wasted trip. LOL. Not everyone lives in Brooklyn.

However, had it not been my cousin then we would have been
joking about it sitting around the bar and trash talking on weekends and evenribbing him about chasing and missing.

I never mentioned it to him because I didn’t want to have that conversation.

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