The 411 On Copulins

Here’s The 411 On Copulins: Natural Vaginal Secretions That Can Control Your Partner’s Mind.

I was scrolling my Instagram timeline when I came across a post by dating & development coach Eddie Fews. The image was an artistic depiction of a woman’s vaginal opening with a description of “copulins,” which are feminine juices that have the power to control men’s minds. It read “The vagina produces a thick chemical fluid known as copulin that has actual mind control effects on a male’s brain. If a man is exposed to a woman’s copulins over time she will be able to change, remove or insert memories.” <smirking> 

Come to mama!

OK, I can see some of you thinking "why haven't I heard of this before? "

Whoa, sounds like some pretty powerful stuff right? From there I did my own research, and stumbled upon a clip from a documentary titled “The Science Of Sex Appeal.”

In the doc, researchers designed a study using a low dose of synthetic copulins and exposed men to the undetectable scent as they scanned photos of women. Normally, men can distinguish women they find attractive versus unattractive, but the copulins caused the men to lose their ability to decipher between the two. Suddenly everyone was sexy. One sniff of copulins causes a spike in testosterone which clouds men’s thinking and discernment abilities.

Now to reap the alleged “mind control” benefits, your partner needs to take more than just a sniff of your nether regions. According to research by The Hair Pin, actually getting your copulins into his penis can take 15 minutes. 

The writer explains that the woman would have to sit on top of her man while he is erect, and allow the copulins to drip through his open penis hole until he absorbs up to half a cup of your fluids. That’s a lot. But once in, any of your input, ideas and thoughts will be your mate’s singular focus.

Given that this technique is so powerful, it’s best to ask your partner for consent before proceeding. Plus, how else are you going to get him to sit still for 15 minutes while you copulate?

Women talk about being d!ckmatized all the time, but it appears the playing field is a little more biologically even than we previously thought.

In the next 15 mins I wiill have total control.

They comes in Peace, do they really need to say it?

Do you always come to a woman’s rescue on request? 

Women are so much more independent these days but are they always thinking they have to declare that they are not ready to fight with men?  

What does it mean when a single  statement is made by women “We come in Peace”

Why wouldn’t  I question if I should n’t be a bit leery of women who declare this from the very beginning?

Maybe they are fighters, maybe they have strong opinions that will leave a man breathing heavy after they tell him off.... or punch him in the gut? Or maybe these women are  not normally very nice but feel they need to tell you they will not fight with you …. IF a man posted his type pic with these words written across his face, women would be saying “no” to everything he says after “HI, allow me to introduce myself”

Women have some major advantages by saying with one statement that “We comes in Peace” it makes men curious… well, at least this man. Let’s face it women are the best communicators of the sexes and they can make a statement with one cryptic message and get maximum mileage out of it.

We men start trying to figure out what exactly does it mean. Is “come” spelled the way she intended it or is a play on words?

Never mind my B.A.D. mind this is not even a statement that I can play with.. The word “Peace” can only mean one thing. It’s biblical. So why does it seem so odd to me that I have twisted it in so many ways in my mind as to what she is telling her viewers? Those eyes are sexy as are her lips, but the nostrils are flaring a bit and her jaw is very stern.  It’s hard to look at her and not think there is a double meaning in the statement. So why “we come in Peace “ and not “ I come in Peace?” Maybe it’s for her to know and for us men never to find out, how large her group of Peace Loving women are in her group....

We men have been so conditioned, here of late, to try and read women and still we can’t figure out what are they thinking when they post things on Socia Media sometimes. Now, this next picture is a bit different. If seem self-explanatory, but yet not really.

We see it and our minds go to thoughts of morning sex or all night sex. No caption necessary.

Champagne bucket means room serve before or after a special go around, the one red rose… with fruits juice plate!

I happen to know that this young lady models, so I’m thinking “a commercial.” Maybe I’m dead wrong.

But I like the challenge of trying to come up with a story on this one… whereas the first one baffles me to the max, so I leave it alone…. For now.

Final thoughts:

I pride myself in trying to have answers even when there are no questions. But sometimes my imagination goes overboard and far out of bounds. It must be the B.A.D images that float around in my mind..most of the time.

Why do we all want more and more these days?

This is the easy answer: Satisfaction is never a guarantee in any relationship

• Men are visual creatures the grass always looks greener, on the other side. Men have choices that keep showing up on the horizon, women outnumber men so they see to come out of nowhere… in multiples, one looks better than the other, which puts and man in an eye-candy store to go exploring for the ultimate mate. The ultimate mate does not exist so he keeps shopping. And acquiring the more he has the more he wants as he may not have to worry too much about losing what he has already acquired.   

• And women are visual creatures, in modern days more so that in decades before. Women have become more like men. The see what the could have and they want it.

Whereas their mothers and grandmothers were happy just to be chosen by a good man.

We are in consumers heaven. We may be in positions to choose and keep choosing. Cars, even houses, new versions constantly come to market. So we treat relationships in the same way. Keep upgrading and you will be satisfied eventually, but not really. There no such thing as a perfect relationship

Well, this what your parents had if they were together for a long period of time.

Whereas today women have options so they get upset with men who are not perfect in their eyes…..

Men often don’t see themselves as the rebound man because in our minds we are doing the choosing but women have had maybe a few previous relationships that didn’t work out for them the way the wanted and now they find themselves on the rebound and the next guy fits the bill and there you have it he will  do for now.

 So satisfaction is never happening because the following is so true. The wrong one is the one you are currently in a relationship with simply because you have to right, yourself to make the relationship right…. You are never going to be satisfied if you keep trying to make the person the right person while see that person as the wrong person.

After reading this book I’m convinced of these facts!

Keep the magic of your relationship alive

One of the Paradoxes of relationships is that when things are going well and you are feeling the other person, You may suddenly find yourselves emotionally distancing your partner or reacting to them in unloving ways. Maybe you can relate to some of these examples:

- You may be feeling a lot of affection for your partner, and then, the next morning, you wake up and feel annoyed and even resentful of your lover.

- You are affectionate, patient, and accepting, and then the next day, you become demanding or dissatisfied.

- You can't imagine not caring for your lover, and then, the very next day, you have an argument and suddenly begin thinking about divorce.


- You are attracted to your sex partner, and then suddenly you feel numb because of your partner's presence.

- You are happy with your partner and then suddenly feel insecure about the relationship or powerless to get what you need.

- You feel confident and assured that your partner loves you and suddenly you feel desperate and needy.

- You are attracted to your partner, and then when he or she makes a commitment you lose your attraction or you find others more attractive.

-You want to have sex with your lover, but when they want it, you don't want it.

-You feel good about yourself and your life and then, suddenly, you begin feeling unworthy, abandoned, and inadequate.

-You have a wonderful day and look forward to seeing your partner, but when you see them, something that your partner says makes you feel disappointed, depressed, repelled, tired, or emotionally distant.

Maybe you have noticed your partner going through some of these changes as well. Take a moment to re-read the above list, thinking about how your partner may suddenly lose his or her ability to give you the love you deserve/need. When you know that you have felt like the above from time to time  also, therefore avoid feeling slighted.

I try!

They loved each other, but!

They did love each other, but because they didn’t understand their partner’s primary needs their love wasn’t getting through to each other.

Many people give up when relationships become too difficult. Relationships become easier when we understand our partner’s primary needs. Without giving more of what the other person needs which is what is required we do not burn out. This understanding of the different kinds of love finally explains why our sincere loving attempts fail. To fulfill your partner, you need to learn how to give the love he or she primarily needs.

The key is to learn how to listen without getting angry.

The number one way a man can succeed in fulfilling a woman’s primary needs is through communication. The fact that communication is particularly important with Venetians, we men need to learn to communicate effectively. By learning to listen to a woman’s feelings, a man can effectively shower a woman with the care she wants, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, and reassurance.   One of the biggest problems men have with listening to women is that they become frustrated or angry because they forget that women are supposed to communicate differently than men do. There are ways to remember these differences and make some adjustment about what to do, to avoid getting frustrated.

How  to listen without getting Angry:

• Remember your anger comes from not understanding her point of view, and this is never her fault

• Remember that feelings don’t always make sense right away, but they’re still valid and need empathy.

• Remember that anger may come from not knowing what to do to make things better. Even if she doesn’t immediately feel better, you listening and understanding are helping.

• Remember you don’t have to agree to understand her point of view or to be appreciated as a good listener.

• Remember you don’t fully have to understand her point of view to succeed in being a good listener.

• Remember you are not responsible for how she feels. She may sound as though she is blaming you, but she really needs to be understood,

• Remember that if she makes you really angry she is probably mistrusting you. Deep inside her is a scared little girl who is afraid of opening up and being hurt and who needs your kindness and compassion.

When a man can listen to a woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift. He makes it safe for her to express herself. The more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that he needs.

Thank you for listening, that is all I need from you right now.

If you want to know how women think read a book written by one.

Women have multi-channels brains, unlike men who have mostly one-track minds. When Men see her we want what we see, or what we imagine we are not yet seeing due to the coverup. But we hope, once she is uncovered, she with will be as fine as we imagined.

Whereas women carry on a whole dialog in their brains when they like a guy. I have taken some time to read some e-books, here of late, all written by women. I was amazed at the thoughts that women have when they write… women writers are totally amazing they are downright insightful. Their imaginations are like runaway trains, maybe even like the information superhighway, that turns and twist along the tracks. But never derailing. I often wonder if what women are really thinking, but they can still keep a straight face and act like you are not even a point of interest. If only I could tap and use a Mr. Spark Vulcan mind probe and walk up to a lady of interest and say: ‘I know what you are thinking and just rattle off all her thoughts and all the detours she has taking from track to track. And watch her freak…. Can you hear the shrieking, like train wheel coming around the bend…. that would come out of her mouth if that would happen. The gasps the covering of the mouth… the  thoughts of “Holly Jesus, how could you let him read my mind, like that…!” Relax ladies, if only I could. Why do men have a one-track mind and women have multiple channels that are tied to emotions that can tell a story we guys might love to have the privilege of knowing. No more guessing no more doubting, a guy could walk up to her with confidence knowing she wants him too and that she has fantasized about things he has not even dreamed about, yet.

Why are you here bothering me, can’t you see I’m busy?

She is getting  a good work out beating the crap out of the heavy bag in the gym she is sweating up a storm. Is her agressive workout due to a breakup, or a cheating lover… what has her looking so furious. Dear a man approach her without knowing what is the caged rage  taking place on the heavy bag. Let/right combination to a side kick to the mi a front kick to area where it might hurt for days. Does a guy want to approach her with a smart A$$ remark. Like ‘Hello pretty lady, Keep your left glove up and protect your pretty face, most punches that land come from the right hand of your oponant, that can cause a

TKO come from the right hand hook or foot round house kick  to the head.’

Well if you dear  then be on your guard she might just test your defensive reflexes.

  

 

Or Try checking out the one in the Zumba class. Who is making sure you notice her. Her head tilted, skin up  saying in her mind “I’m tall can’t you see me?” Dude, wouldn’t you love to follow the tracks of her mind. The various twist and turn like a roller coaster ride at full speed up and down and crossways. Her mind is telling her “do something that will keep him looking at her. But don’t look too interested…. And don’t look desperate…. for attention play it cool, girl…. He will have to wait till the Zumba class is over to come and talk to you. More time to think on how to keep him interested and not to give up too much information.  Ooh wait, is he a regular at the gym…. If not then the game plan has to change.

Final thought

We men would love to be priviledged to women’s internal dialogs… but when she starts telling us  stuff with a solid flow of information….we want to turn it off the flow of information coming at us at warp speed, is just too much. We can’t hear every turn and twist because we can only process one track at a time. Hmmm the Created sure did make it complicated for us guys to mate with a thinking woman.  

Two kinds of Men/One Kind of behavior

So which kind of man are you?

Ladies, there are two kinds of men. One will become incredibly defensive and stubborn when a woman tries to change him, while the other will Agree to change but later

will forget and revert back to the old behavior.

A man either actively resists or passively resists.

When a man does not feel loved just the way he is, he will either consciously

or unconsciously repeat the behavior that is not being accepted.

He feels an inner compulsion to repeat the behavior that is not being accepted, by his woman.

For a man to improve himself he needs to feel loved in an accepting way. Otherwise, he defends himself and stays the same. He needs to feel accepted just the way he is, and then he, on his own, will look for ways to improve.

FACT: Men don’t want to be improved/change

Just as a man want to explain why women shouldn’t be upset, women want to explain why men shouldn’t behave the way they do….. Just as men mistakenly want to “fix” women, women mistakenly try to “improve” men.

Men see the world through Martian eyes. Our motto is “ don’t fix it, if it isn’t broken.” When a woman attempts to change a man, he receives the message that she thinks he is broken. This hurts a man and makes him very defensive. He doesn’t feel loved and accepted

The best way to help a man grow is to let go of trying to change him in any way.

A man needs acceptance regardless of his imperfections. To accept a person’s imperfections is not easy, especially when women see how he could become better. It does, however, become easier when women understand that the best way to help a man grow is to let go of the idea that the change him in any way.

The following  can help a woman remember:

• Remember: don’t ask him too many questions when he is upset or he will feel you are trying to change him.
• Remember: trying to improve him in give up his way of doing things. He needs your love, not your rejection, to grow.
• Remember: when you offer unsolicited advice he may feel mistrusted, controlled and most importantly rejected.
• Remember: when a man becomes stubborn and resists change he is not feeling loved; he is afraid to admit his mistakes for fear of not being loved.
• Remember: if you make sacrifices hoping he will do the same for you then he will feel pressured to change. Practice doing things for yourself and not depending on him to make you happy.
• Remember: you can share negative feelings without trying to change him. When he feels accepted it is easier for him to listen.
• Remember: if you give him directions and make decisions for him he will feel corrected and controlled

I’m so glad we understand each other now, that you remember the key points

As men and women learn to support each other in the ways that are most important for their own unique needs, change and growth will become automatic. With a greater awareness of your partner’s primary needs, you can redirect your support according to their needs and make your relationships dramatically easier and more fulfilling.

We Men need to keep track of the Love tank meter!

We men often do not realize that to a woman the little things are just as important as the big things.

In other words, to a woman, a single rose gets as many points (+1) as paying her rent for her on time.
Without understanding this basic difference in scorekeeping, men and women are continually frustrated and disappointed in their relationships. “It’s the little things that make a big difference!”

There are a variety of ways a man can score points with his woman without having to do great things.
It is just a matter of redirecting the energy and attention he is already giving.
Most men already know about many of these things but we don’t bother to do them
because we don’t realize how important the little thing is to a woman.
We men truly believe the little things are insignificant when compared to the big things we are doing for her.

Some men may start out in a relationship doing the little things,
but having done them once or twice we stop. Through some mysterious instinctive force,
we begin to focus our energies into doing one big thing for our woman once or twice a year.
We then neglect to do all the little things that are necessary for a woman to feel fulfilled.
To fulfill a woman, a man needs to understand what she needs to feel loved and supported.
The love tank needs to be Topped up constantly!

“So is the Love Tank on Full?”

This can be extremely hard for a man to understand. One way to look at it... 
just imagine that women have a love tank similar to the gas tank on a car.
It needs to be filled up over and over again.
Doing many little things is the secret for filling a woman’s love tank.
A woman feels loved when her love tank is full.
She is able to respond with greater love, trust,
acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement.
Lots of little things are needed to top off her tank.

The following is a list of my top 10 of the little ways
a man can keep his woman’s love tank full:
Upon arriving home find her first before doing anything else and give her a hug and a kiss
( the man will be scoring many points over time).

Fellahs be brief, avoid being too lengthy. Use “would you “ or “ will you” phrases, avoid using phrases like. "could you "Ask her specific questions about her day that indicate an awareness of what she was planning to do
(.e.g, “How did your appointment with the client go?”

Practice listening and asking questions.

Resist the temptation to solve her problems--- empathize instead.

Give her twenty minutes of unsolicited, quality attention

(don’t read the newspaper or watch the news, don’t be distracted by anything else during this time.)

Bring her some cut flowers as a surprise as well as on special occasions.

(O.K. where do you find cut flowers? At the flower shop. Or the supermarket. Have a pair of scissors in your car and cut the stems. Showing you attention to the details. Remember the little things are important.

Plan a date several days, weeks in advance,
rather than waiting for Friday night and asking her what she wants to do.
If she generally makes dinner or if it is her turn to cook and she seems tired or really busy,

offer to make dinner. Of better yet get home before she does and starts fixing her favorites.

Compliment her on how she looks. Even after she had a long day.

Validate her feelings when she is upset.

Final thoughts

Guys it would be in your best interest to be the magic man!

It’s magic when a man does the little things, she likes, for a woman.
It keeps her love tank full and the score even. When the score is even,
or mostly even, a woman knows she is loved, which makes her more trusting and loving in return.
When a woman knows she’s loved, she can love without resentment.
Doing little things for a woman is also healing for a man.
In fact, those little things will tend to heal his resentments as well as hers.
He begins to feel powerful and effective because she’s getting the caring she needs.
Both are then fulfilled.

Who knows you might become the man that causes her to have
“spontaneous Orgasms”!

Treat her like she is Aphrodite and she will treat you like you’re Zeus!!

Her memories of you will be in the category of
“The Man that caused the most consecutive orgasms in her life!”

Serendipity: The effect by which one accidentally stumbles upon something truly wonderful,
especially while looking for something  entirely unrelated ~Author Unknown

However ladies:

When a man hears a demanding tone, no matter how nicely you phrase your request all he hears is that he is not giving you enough.
His tendency is then to give less until you appreciate what he is already giving.
When asking a man for support, assume that he doesn’t have to be convinced.

To ask a man for support:

Be direct, avoid being indirect

“could you’ or can you.”

Be my Lady!

When does it become evident, to a man, that she may not like herself as much as she should?

The Sadness in her eyes tells a telling tail of low self-esteem.

Very often men pursue women without knowing
their history or their current state of minds.
Men see her as someone that they totally admire externally,
and even her accomplishments.
And that is all that matters to us, momentarily...during “the chase”
and even at the beginning of the relationship.
But then the experiences of being together coming into play.
She has things that we question, behavioral patterns that erks us...,
things about her past that keeps popping up,
and these things may destroy what you are in the middle of building with her.
Unless a man is willing to take the time to understand that her self-esteem issues are more that he was aware of,

and now maybe what he is not willing to deal with….

He runs the risk of doing more damage than good to her.

She might just fall apart, if there is a breakup,
and go over the edge.
She might crash like a wave on the Rocky shoreline.
Losing herself to self-pity and even become suicidal.
Now unless a man is totally unfeeling this can become a problem that he may not have foreseen.
And now has to deal with… there are so many people dealing withabandonment issues, it’s crazy.
Men and women, that are not being treated by professionals,
may have strange ways of dealing with their lives forward.
The numbers are telling…. stories after stories.

Now I know that the women that are reading this are questioning why am I picking on women *issues.
When it’s usually a man or two that cause women to have low self-esteem issues.
I have to concur… because women often need to be validated.
And men usually need to feel trusted.
So putting these fact in evidence we are often in a cycle of a spin-drying like in a whirlpool washer.
Flipping up and down....over and being spun around until all is said and done.
Men lose the trust that women initially had in them,
and women lose the validation that they often require to feel worthy of love,
compassion, and admiration.

The following are a few pointers that can make for a  
happy Couple self-help therapy - K.I.S.S.

Give each other attention when it’s needed most….
Remember - Her wave can be crashing you need to recognize that it’s happening,
and give her your support,
and he needs to feel her trust when he needs it most.

Refresh and enjoy each-other, often!

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  Spend quality time together as often as time permits

Grant each other  a professional massage every now and then

Let’s get rid of all the toxic energy here and now. Sweat out the toxic stuff together in the Sauna

let’s leave it all here in this barrel

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  Take off the hat and shades, and let me teach you how to swim.
  You can trust me!

Giving her a piggyback ride now and then.

Lift up her spirit when she needs it most!

Remember men are “givers” and women are “taker”
so give him the opportunity to "give"
and her the opportunity to “receive”  

Have an eye to eye talk about your future together!

Go to a concert where they play “love songs”