Fellahs, you need to be able to read her moods to satisfy her!

Guys let’s not kid ourselves, the sexual revolution has come and we are still not tuned in!

She still wants protection and security!

Women.. not...Girls, know how they want to feel, but we men are not always tuned in to get them to that point of ecstasy with regularity. Ok, I can see all you “Tarzan’s of the jungle” saying: “you’re not talking to me, dude. I bring it!”

‘OK, maybe I’m not talking to you’ but many guys are not stepping up and performing like rock stars in the bedrooms. If this was the case then why are so many women complaining about not having orgasms. There are even married women who have never had an Orgasm during sex. Is that the man’s fault? Maybe, maybe not. But if she can have an orgasm through self-fulfillment methods then her mate has not really been doing the job to her satisfaction.

I often wonder why being impatient gets you not what you want sometimes. An uncle John of mine RIP, used to tell me “A patient man rides a donkey”. Hmmm! could that be part of the problem for many mature and even younger adult men? Well I know how to be patient but another person of the female persuasion also told me “ exercising too much patience, will hurt you in the long run!” these are both good advise if you want to have a successful union with a modern day woman.

In the days of old men would seldom, if ever, engaged in oral stimulation to please a woman, they thought of it as nasty, women thought of it as nasty too. But now today that is all some folks want to do. Men want women to perform “deep throat” actions. Ever since the movie with “Linda Lovelace,” came out. Guys are thinking that it’s the greatest command performance a woman can grant a man.

While women have been secretly watching porn and seeing that their sex lives have no rhyme or Rhythm to it. No music that gets them to the promised land, with hallelujah chorus accompaniment.

So what’s the answer? First try to understand sexual pleasure is not “a one size Fits all.” or  “BOGO sale.” It’s a communication process that requires proper stimuli. No two situations are the same. What you see (in porn XXX)  is not what you can emulate and get the same results (they are acting.) Let me just give you an example here. I was involved a few years ago with a woman who loved my voice over the phone but not necessarily as much in person, maybe she wasn't that crazy about me as a person. She would record my voice while I spoke to her over the phone and use the recordings afterward to get herself excited. So she would wait until I was just waking up early in the morning and my voice was deeper than normal, to call me. There was something about my morning voice, I guess.  So when I found out what she was doing I wanted to get Copyrights compensation. She LOL. and said, “Barry White you are not, dude!” ----“not even Melvin of the Temptations?” with deep bass voices.

So how dangerous are black panther-like eyes,  B.A.D. initials, and a baritone voice? 

Not very! I'm a protector, not a predator.

My smart-ass comeback was ‘I don’t look like either of those dudes either!’ <smirking>

A question might be “who is getting the best results from doing what and for whom…. “It’s all about that bass, that bass!”  Right!

Many younger men, these days, don’t seem to have that bass in their voices like many young men had when  I was a teenager I would copy my cousin‘s baritone voice and practicing to sing like him... My voice did change from an alto sound to a baritone but I never was able to sing like him. Damn---- one out of two is not the results I wanted. There is even a  theory that Might explain why women prefer ----Harley’s over Kawasaki bike to ride on. The heavier sounds (and vibrations) seem to get women more excited than speed and the wind rushing through their everything on the fly.... down a winding road.

A Woman wants more, men also feel they deserve more..!

You guys better Figure it out don’t leave each other hanging and Disappointed!

Foreplay "between the sheets."