Why do we all want more and more these days?

This is the easy answer: Satisfaction is never a guarantee in any relationship

• Men are visual creatures the grass always looks greener, on the other side. Men have choices that keep showing up on the horizon, women outnumber men so they see to come out of nowhere… in multiples, one looks better than the other, which puts and man in an eye-candy store to go exploring for the ultimate mate. The ultimate mate does not exist so he keeps shopping. And acquiring the more he has the more he wants as he may not have to worry too much about losing what he has already acquired.   

• And women are visual creatures, in modern days more so that in decades before. Women have become more like men. The see what the could have and they want it.

Whereas their mothers and grandmothers were happy just to be chosen by a good man.

We are in consumers heaven. We may be in positions to choose and keep choosing. Cars, even houses, new versions constantly come to market. So we treat relationships in the same way. Keep upgrading and you will be satisfied eventually, but not really. There no such thing as a perfect relationship

Well, this what your parents had if they were together for a long period of time.

Whereas today women have options so they get upset with men who are not perfect in their eyes…..

Men often don’t see themselves as the rebound man because in our minds we are doing the choosing but women have had maybe a few previous relationships that didn’t work out for them the way the wanted and now they find themselves on the rebound and the next guy fits the bill and there you have it he will  do for now.

 So satisfaction is never happening because the following is so true. The wrong one is the one you are currently in a relationship with simply because you have to right, yourself to make the relationship right…. You are never going to be satisfied if you keep trying to make the person the right person while see that person as the wrong person.

After reading this book I’m convinced of these facts!