One of the Paradoxes of relationships is that when things are going well and you are feeling the other person, You may suddenly find yourselves emotionally distancing your partner or reacting to them in unloving ways. Maybe you can relate to some of these examples:
- You may be feeling a lot of affection for your partner, and then, the next morning, you wake up and feel annoyed and even resentful of your lover.
- You are affectionate, patient, and accepting, and then the next day, you become demanding or dissatisfied.
- You can't imagine not caring for your lover, and then, the very next day, you have an argument and suddenly begin thinking about divorce.
- You are attracted to your sex partner, and then suddenly you feel numb because of your partner's presence.
- You are happy with your partner and then suddenly feel insecure about the relationship or powerless to get what you need.
- You feel confident and assured that your partner loves you and suddenly you feel desperate and needy.
- You are attracted to your partner, and then when he or she makes a commitment you lose your attraction or you find others more attractive.
-You want to have sex with your lover, but when they want it, you don't want it.
-You feel good about yourself and your life and then, suddenly, you begin feeling unworthy, abandoned, and inadequate.
-You have a wonderful day and look forward to seeing your partner, but when you see them, something that your partner says makes you feel disappointed, depressed, repelled, tired, or emotionally distant.
Maybe you have noticed your partner going through some of these changes as well. Take a moment to re-read the above list, thinking about how your partner may suddenly lose his or her ability to give you the love you deserve/need. When you know that you have felt like the above from time to time also, therefore avoid feeling slighted.
I try!
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