How is Betrayal felt differently by men and women

Come here baby, I need someone to relight my fire!

Women often try to turn their lives around after they have felt they were betrayed.
She may have had a relationship that painted “the perfect picture…”
of romance that had her thinking, she had found a perfect match.
But then if it took a devastating turn, she will have to find major strength to recover.
A woman must fight to escape a new dangerous web of secrets (her secrets, his secrets)
to start again.
Can she keep her dark moments in her past hidden while opening up her heart again?
A  new combustible blend of romance, intrigue, and suspense that will
“boggle her mind right up until the bombshell climax of love expressed to her hits’

It may be her second or third chance for love but she needs to decipher is it a tale of lustful illicit temptations,  
just a crush or true love….she needs to know before she will give a new love
possibility a shot.

Men, on the other hand, have rubber band instincts even though we may have felt betrayal
in a previous relationship(s) we don’t need the reassurance of the words
”Trust Me, I’m different”
coming from a new love interest.

The fact that both men and women Doubt their partner’s love

Without a full understanding of the cycles in relationships, it is easy to see how men and women begin to doubt their partners love for them. Without seeing how a woman can inadvertently
prevent men from finding their passion,  
they often simply assume that their men will be the same all the time as when he was
“chasing her.” Feeling a continuous strong need for her presence.
She wants him to have eyes for her only. But when he pulls back she misinterprets his behavior, as he is now interested in something else that may have nothing to do with someone else
(another woman.)
Something else could be many different things, a job situation, a desire to have a new challenge, a few new buddies to hang out with after a stressful day.
Ladies, it’s not always about “sex” and chasing a new female. This is how women often misinterpret men actions. To a certain extent, a man loses himself through connecting with his woman.
What does that mean?

Men may just need “some space” or “need to be alone,” from time to time,
regardless of how it's described when a man retreats, he is fulfilling a vaild need to take care of himself for a while.
Just like we don not decide to be hungry, a man does not decide to retreat.
It is an instinctual urge. Men can only get so close, and then he begins to lose himself.
At that point, he begins to feel his need for autonomy and begins his retreat for better positioning.

OK, so why do men sometimes pull away..... when women want to get close?

For many women, a man tends to pull away precisely at the time
when she wants to talk and be intimate. This occurs for two reasons:

• A woman will unconsciously sense when a man is pulling away and precisely

at those times she will attempt to reestablish their intimate connection and say the
Magic words “Let’s talk”. (Instant Turn off) Hmmm! He hears this and he continues to pull away,
she mistakenly concludes that he doesn’t want her,  
that he does not care for her, “he just does not want to talk.”
When women open up and share deeper and more intimate feelings it

may actually trigger a man’s need to retreat.
A man can only handle so much intimacy before his alarm bells go off,

saying to himself it is time to find balance by retreating for better positioning.
At the most intimate moment, a man may suddenly automatically switch gears to
feeling his need for autonomy.

Are you seriously expecting me to do a U-turn
after you just pulled away from me?!

Have I confused you yet?  

It is baffling to a woman when a man pulls away because something she says or does that often triggers his sudden departure(She feels instant betrayal)
Generally, when a woman starts to talk about things with feelings her man starts to feel this urge to pull back. This is because feelings draw men closer and create intimacy,
and when a man gets too close he hits the reverse gear.
It’s not that he does not want to hear about her feelings.
At another time in his intimacy cycle, when he is needing to get close,
the same feelings that could have triggered his departure will draw him closer.
It is not what she says that triggers his departure but when she says it.

<smirking> Yeah men are all so very B.A.D.