There are internal contradictions that modern-day women often experience

Which me should I be?

Women want men to be men, dominant but not dominating! An internal Contradiction that they have to balance. What the hell does that mean? Many guys don't understand what women want.

In real terms when a woman is the boss at work and has a man at home who does not understand her dilemma? Does that work well in their relationship?  She has to go from being the leader/decision maker and even the delegator/controller at work to being the follower and the softer female at home. Really? That switch does not often turn automatically.

Men these days have to understand what to expect when they are in a relationship with women that are in these executive positions. The Man needs to do the things that allow her to want to switch from being the person in control to being a partner in the relationship. Partner are also decision makers, but there is a high Archie in all situations. Who does what, when and how! Joining forces can be battle of wills, if a man does not understand that women are no longer just housewives, they have double roles, in all situations. Men that have been single and have lived as bachelors for a while may have learned how to switch from being the only decision maker to have a partner who is also used to being the only decision makers.  But do men revert back to commanding women to do as they say? Think before you say or do the wrong things, dude!

No matter which gender you are... you will agree with one of these statements!

Like a plane on final approach, the runway is ahead. The pilot turns off the automatic pilot and takes control and does what he has been trained to do. Land the plane safely! Sounds simple enough, but it’s not as easy as one would think, each airport is different, and runaways are not always the same. On final approach to meeting and greeting an independent career woman, a Man has to avoid doing the same things he is used to doing. She might see him coming and think “OK don’t blow the landing Dude” if you mess up you will crash and burn upon impact.    

That laptop open is a dead give away that she has a busy life. Her eyes may tell a story but you will not know what she is thinking. Assume nothing.   Approach with caution!

Final thought

I’ve often thought that I should write a book on “Act like a Modern-day man,  but remain a gentleman” however I have to find the right balance in how to write it. Women might want to read, too!

My version of being a “man” means you can come home or go visit her Grandmother and fix the things that are falling apart at her old house. It may not be your duty but it's what you can volunteer to do, but you need the skills.  Being a “gentleman” still means you should open doors for her, pull out her chair so that she can sit down at the table. These are simple things that speak volumes to a woman's heart.

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