The Crisis of False unrealistic Expectations

Are women still attracted to the gentlemanly types..... these days?

Chances are the odds are stacked against it happening. Women are more exposed to the Non-gentlemanly types these days. the variety of the guys who want to be known for their swagger is greater. With the cultures overlapping as they have been these last few decades...many cultures are in these crossover patterns, where they are leaning towards the bad boys swagger as more exciting and more challenging, for women to experience things they never experienced with just gentlemanly types, of past decades.

The bad boy James Bond look with the Tux can still give the impression of a gentleman with a bad boy swagger, with a slightly more than a 5pm shadow.
Shirt opens the tie untied, leaning against a “Bentley,” a “Jaguar” a “Rolls Royce”, or driving a “BMW” a “Mercedes Benz” or even a “Masseratti.” which has a "King" crown as an emblem. So now this makes a statement to most women who are fixated on the image on being with the combination of smooth/rugged look and with a little bit more than normal articulated vocab, this most like a dude with a University education. He can be a player but will settle down with the right woman… most likely an Alpha female that can hold her own in all areas he feels compliments him.  Ready to do the cocktail party scenes, the boardroom meetings, the travel to distant shores. He may even be willing to get married! So all you beta females, you are not going to making the cut.

So why is this a Crisis of Unrealistic Expectations? Simply put it's about the movie images that you are training your brains to expect….this kind of man to walk into your life, these are Fairytales. Very few of you 10-1 women to men ratio out in the workforce will meet a guy that fits your perfect criteria, what you are seeing as a must have… bad boy swagger image in the Boardrooms? Really?  OK, Jay Z is a now a Boardroom ex-BADBoy rapper. Now, a producer….. investor business owner he is married to Bea, who has the major swagger of her own, she is worth upwards of $300M. With his worth being $800M+ they are the power couple that is worth almost $1.2B. So will Jay Z walk away from her to deal with someone who is not in her category? Before he does..he might seek Bob Johnson advice on the subject "is the split from his now Billionaire Ex-wife, worth the change in your midlife years. Bob Johnson knows that the split that cut his net worth in half. 

OK, so how is the likes of Cris Brown doing, being charged with rape in a foreign country, currently... but no official charges have been brought yet? He Swagger, but swagger can make you do stupid swagger things that can land you in serious trouble… Just so I’m clear had Cris Brown, not beat-up RiRi they might have been on their way to being a power couple like Jay Z and Bea. RiRi might have made him the next Bob Johnson… as it was, BET bob's ex-wife…... who’s father helped get him to get started to becoming a Billionaire her original net worth was already strong. So she helped him move to the level he was at before they split. Without her, he might not have made it as far.  

So watch yourself, ladies, as you have unrealistic mathematical expectations remember 10 women to each man is not in your favor. Weigh your options and weigh them again, and again before setting your sights too high, on fake Rich guys!